For those who are eager to improve their language communication and expression skills, this book provides an excellent learning opportunity. The author leverages his professional knowledge in linguistics and psychological counseling, as well as 30 years of research and training experience in social interaction, to present readers with a practical handbook on how to achieve social success through “small talk” – an underestimated form of language communication.
For many people, “small talk” seems to be just trivial matters in daily life. But the author dissects for us the unique charm and huge potential of small talk in interpersonal relationships. By using small talk appropriately, we can more easily and quickly hit it off with strangers, build trust, and shorten distances. This clears the way for subsequent cooperation, friendships and even romantic relationships.
Especially for friends suffering from social anxiety, the many techniques offered in this book are of great practical value. The author uses ample examples to tell us that small talk itself is a progressive “exposure therapy” that can help us overcome our fear of communicating with strangers.
The author also provides us with a complete set of techniques to optimize small talk based on his extensive experience. This system starts with psychological regulation to keep us positive, open-minded and attentive to others. It teaches us how to prepare engaging talking points and ask intriguing questions. It guides us in using proper body language and making accurate responses. By mastering these skills, we can become outstanding in social situations and exert positive influence on families and friends around us.
The book is rich in content, and the Frames system concisely summarizes its key points. I hope this key information can inspire you and make you more confident and comfortable communicating with others in your daily life, improving interpersonal relationships. You might as well pass on the techniques here to friends in need around you, bringing positive changes to their lives.
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